Ie #1: Paladin go to lords house and tell:
I am Paladin of Blablabla, give me your money!
Said like that? No.
Also; a lord would have friends within the local religious authorities; even if the Paladin worded it better ("By the power of the god of
XYZ and in the name of their most holy temple, you are hear-by convoked to bring forth the material wealth of this Household in aid of a righteous and ordained cause.") the lord would delay/make excuses/flat out lie and pay lip service to placate (social equivalent of fleeing) or aquiese and then go complain to the paladin's superiors (the social equivalent of an attack). Complaining to the paladin's superiors is a big one; part of "Being the Law" means that you must function within the law, and are too subject to the law.
All in all: not very Paladin-like, in general, and even if it is, it will have social consequences.
Ie #2: Paladin interrogate a prisoner:
In the name of Blablabla, tell me all what you know!
This is much more stable footing, and probably quite accurate. Most weak-willed people would indeed fold to the Paladin's demands; the Paladin has the weight of an entire military-religious organisation behind him, plus wields the power of a god like a weapon. He has presence, inspires awe and dread.
Ie #3:
I am Paladin of Blablabla, we really did this (killed a Dragon, where not), accept this as true.
This would be abuse of the Paladin's organisation and defamation of their divine authority. It may very well work. But ultimately, news will get back, people will find out the paladin is a fraud, and not only will it destroy his reputation, it will also weaken the influence of his organisation and cast a poor light on the religion as a whole.
A paladin acting in such a way, especially in the first and third examples, is asking to be branded a heretic, hunted down and beheaded by a
loyal paladin.