Here's the thing, in Monsterhearts you're playing people who have supernatural powers to harm and manipulate others. Prior to growing up, all of their powers are aimed in this way. The witch can hex you, the ghoul tries to eat you, the queen tries to rule you. You can can turn someone on, shut them down, force them to hold steady. You can spend a string to buy or force someone's cooperation.
But, when you want to talk sincerely with someone, express your love for someone, help someone unselfishly to become their true self, then you're on your own. You got nothing.