But.. but... playing Buffy without queer content would mean no Willow and no Tara (at least)! =:-I
Anyway... I don't know, sometimes reading the comment from of a lot of gamers about that move, it seems that they assume that at their table it WILL be used as a sort of "turn-you-gay" ray-gun, with no respect for the characters and even less for the other players.
But if you play with people like that, that move is the very last of your problems, and the number of games you can't play is much bigger than monsterhearts...