Like I said, the fighter is already hacking and slashing. He's already said what he's doing. The thief can aid him, that's what aid is for. But it isn't the thief's turn to do anything else.
Ah, you use Aid when someone is trying to jump in on someone else's action. I've never allowed that at all; perhaps that's too much formative D&D training, but I've run games that players get to act only when it's their "turn": if you want to help another character, you take the set-up move on your action, and the other guy follows through on his.
So, use Aid to roll to help someone else's action, out of turn. It's a bonus! That at least gives me a consistent framework for when to call for rolling it. And makes Bond seem a little more worthwhile, which is nice.
while it sounds like I'm a fan of auto-hit, it's much more like noclue's approach.
But I'm still not clear what noclue's approach is. Depends on the fictional positioning, yes, got it. But
how much?
Okay, let me try to describe some situations. What would your
actual rulings be at the table?
1. It's the thief's turn. He successfully trips an ogre who was about to bash the fighter.
What bonus, if any, do you give to the fighter's next attack against the sprawling ogre?
2. The ogre, back on his feet, is winding up with his stone mallet to club the fighter into next week. The ranger acts, and hacks the ogre from his exposed side.
What bonus, if any, do you give to the ranger's attack?
3. It's the bard's turn. He rolls Defy Danger to disarm the ogre, and the brutal mallet goes flying into the darkness. Now the fighter Hacks the disarmed ogre.
What bonus, if any, do you give to the attack?
4. The cleric drops a weighted, entangling net over the ogre. It comes around to the fighter's turn again. The ogre is now disarmed, netted, and the wizard just blasted it for big damage.
What bonus, if any, do you give to the fighter's attack?
If these situations still seem too unclear or hypothetical, then what I'd really like to know is: what other information do you think you need? I'm trying to specify the important facts of the situations, but if I'm missing something, that's part of what I want to know: how do other people think about these things? My goal is to get some sort of reasonably consistent set of guidelines in my head, so that I can give reasonably predictable rulings at the table.