Hey Nathan!
Yeah, I was thinking more along the lines of the group picking one or two options from the list
You could use it for ideas about each PC background and motivation for adventuring, but I was thinking more along the lines of idea for backgrounds or motivation that the PCs share or have in common.
Mease19
I'm not sure about them conflicting with bonds. Rather than be in the bonds territory--largely personal relationships, perceptions and attitudes--I thought of these lists as less about personal connections and more about the larger and longer term conditions that drove/drive the PCs together.