Agree with AnarchAngel that it's very context dependent.

I had a first level wizard die last night, due primarily to (a) a flood of unlucky rolls, and (b) my inexperience with GM moves and the progression from soft through to hard.

So I had a kind of kooky Elven death, who demanded that she return to the forest and rub up against 5 specific trees. Obviously only do-able amongst friends, but not a very hard dilemma, more embarrassing than challenging.